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Yet Another Experience In Life…

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Someone once said to me…

“Please don’t give up.”

So I didn’t.  Really, I didn’t.  I eventually gave up on him…or should I say “us,” but I certainly did not give up on “ME.”

So maybe that’s the life lesson…

When someone let’s you down that you believe in so deeply, you have no other choice but to reach inside and find out what you are really made of.

Because if you don’t have yourself, who is left?

It doesn’t mean you have to be bitter.  It doesn’t have to become a tug of war.  It can allow for growth and forward movement.

But it’s funny – just when you think there could be no other…no one could possibly touch your soul that deep…someone appears that turns your head, opens your eyes and releases your heart…and just like that…you are free.

Do Your Actions Support Your Intentions?

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Recently I was faced with a decision that was difficult for me to make because I truly cared about someone, but I also knew deep down inside that this person was not ready for what I was capable of in terms of a balanced relationship. 

My intentions were set from the beginning to meet someone who is “emotionally” available in mind, body and spirit.  Hence, a man appeared from my past that I found myself attracted to.   

As time took it’s course, I tried to evaluate whether or not my decision to not go forward was realistic  – was it because I was honoring my intentions – or was it in response to injured feelings of a past hurt.  I had to be clear. 

What I found was although my one time “Forever Man” did forever change my life, this also allowed me to see what I could and could not accept in terms of what was healthy for me.  

It was nice to have companionship, it was lovely to have someone who thought about me, and it was endearing to be wanted, yet I knew by staying, I would not support my intentions of a long lasting, loving relationship.

He thought he was ready, I knew he wanted to be ready.  There was the difference. 

What about you?  Are your actions in alignment with what you desire?  Are you being true to yourself, no  matter how fearful it is or how much it hurts?

(Excerpts from Patricia’s New Book)

“The Energy of the Mind is the Essence of Life”

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Yes, Aristotle said this! 

But what I am curious about is what is your energy level like?  Do you associate your energy levels with how you live your life? 

If you can bring yourself to feel good in your mind – isn’t true then that your whole life begings to feel better?  Have you thought about how you can work with your mind to overcome some of your challenges?  Interesting right?

Well, I will confess…it helps me tremendously to run when I begin to feel “low.”  It’s a quick pick-me-upper and quite frankly I know that I need that to make me feel better.  My outlook starts to get more focus and clarity. 

Now, do I always feel like running or exercising, of course not!  But then, some days I really do look forward to it. It’s like anything else, you do it because it’s an investment in something that you realize the payoff is going to have a great return.  And feeling good – for me – is a fabulous payoff!

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There Is No Set Path, Just follow Your Heart.

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Do you know how to listen to your heart? When your head is saying something completely different from your heart, what do you do? 

I received a gift from a client of mine – it is a brass plate with the words etched into it –

“There is no set path, just follow your heart.”  

I have it hanging in my powder room and I sometimes find myself just staring at it and getting lost in the thought of what it really means…

I am curious on what your thoughts are.  Do you think it’s that simple?  What happens when you follow your heart and someone breaks it?  How do you deal with the heartbreak? 

I am listening…

Music That Can Reveal Your Story…

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Do you think music tells a story of your life?  I think we all relate to music in some form or fashion, and particular songs can reveal many things about a person…and if you listen, really listen, you can hear what someone is trying to say, or better yet, what you may be trying to tell yourself.   

I have found through music, my clients have been able to move forward and work through their challenges that may have been holding them back from obtaining an organized life.  It can be very cathartic to say the least.

To give you some insight into what my story is, I have listed below a sample of my favorites that I would like to share with you.  Would you like to share some of your songs?  I am listening and look forward to your story.

– Patricia

  • Jack Johnson “Better Together”
  • U2 – “Moment of Surrender”
  • Pete Yorn – “Don’t Wanna Cry”
  • Dave Mathews Band – “You and Me”
  • Chris Issak – “King Without a Castle”
  • Charlie Mars – “Meet Me By the Backdoor”
  • Sia – “Breathe Me”
  • Ryan Adams – “Wonderwall”
  • Pearl Jam – “Better Man”
  • Fleet Foxes – “Mykonos”
  • Butch Walker – “The Weight of Her”
  • Counting Crows – “When I Dream Of Michelangelo”
  • Patty Griffin – “One Big Love”
  • 10,000 Maniacs – “Candy Everybody Wants”
  • Gnarls Barkley – “Crazy”
  • The Marshall Tucker Band – “Can’t You See”
  • Duffy – “Stepping Stone”
  • Sugarland – “Keep You”
  • Hayley Westenra – “Never Say Goodbye”
  • Andrea Bocelli – “The Prayer”
  • Paula Cole – “Where Have All the Cowboys Gone”
  • One Eskimo – “Kandi”
  • Diane Birch – “Nothing But A Miracle”

The Cluttered Heart…

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“Each moment of a happy lover’s hour is worth an age of dull and common”

 – Aphra Behn

For my special client who is seeking peace…this is for you! The sweet surrender of an organized life will bring you comfort and ease your cluttered heart and soul.