Are You a Starter, an Explorer, or a Change Maker?
Have you ever noticed how some people endlessly talk about making a change in their lives—yet never follow through? Others search tirelessly for the “right” answer or method, learning everything they can but stopping short of actually implementing what they’ve discovered. And then there are those who, no matter how big or small the step, consistently move the needle forward in their day-to-day routines. These folks aren’t just dreaming or researching; they’re doing. Let’s call them Change Makers.
Three Approaches to Change
- The Starter
Starters love new beginnings—they sign up for online classes, explore fresh hobbies, or reorganize their schedules. Yet once the initial excitement wanes, they struggle to keep momentum. They thrive on novelty but often don’t stick around for the finish line. - The Explorer
Explorers devour information. They’ll read every article, watch every tutorial, and discuss personal growth at length. But they remain in a loop of research and contemplation, waiting to “feel ready.” Real action remains just on the horizon, held back by the drive for more knowledge or the fear of the unknown. - The Change Maker
Change Makers experience the same doubts and uncertainties as everyone else, but they push forward anyway. They take small, tangible steps—even when it’s messy or imperfect—and use failures as opportunities to learn. For them, knowledge isn’t just for collecting; it’s for applying.
It’s Never Too Late—A Story of “Now or Never”
A woman I know recently turned 80. After living in the same house for years, she realized she had a choice:
- Settle for a retirement village she didn’t want, or
- Start something fresh—immediately.
She decided to sell her house, buy a cozy little place she loves, and finally begin writing that memoir she’d dreamed of for decades. Today, she feels more alive and purposeful than ever. While she admits she waited longer than she would’ve liked, the important part is: she didn’t let “too late” stop her. It’s not about age; it’s about following that spark inside you. Whether you’re 18, 38, 58, or 80, each day you hesitate is a day you can’t get back.
Breaking the Cycle of “Stuck”
We all experience phases of procrastination and lingering excuses. That’s part of being human. But how long do you want to stay there? If you sense that restless urge to shift something in your life—be it your environment, career, relationships, or a passion project—perhaps it’s time to lean into that Change Maker mindset. Remember: it’s never too late to start, but also never too early. Why wait until circumstances leave you no choice?
Your Call to Action
If you’re ready to move from just thinking or talking about change to actually making it happen, I’m here to help.
You’ll learn how to define clear goals, break them into manageable steps, and create the support structures you need to stay on track. It’s not about perfection; it’s about progress—and it starts the moment you decide you’re done waiting.
Wherever you stand today—Starter, Explorer, or on the verge of becoming a full-fledged Change Maker—the key is to begin. Start now, before you look back and wonder why you waited so long.
