Does Happiness Elude You?

It’s really quite simple…

Simplicity Reduces Stress
Happiness Keeps Us Healthy
 

Simplicity and happiness go hand in hand.  While simplicity reduces our stress, happiness keeps us healthy.  And after all, isn’t that what we strive for?

New Year – New Beginnings

Have you been thinking about how you can make 2014 one that is filled with happiness and simplicity?  What would your life look like if this did become your reality?  What would change for you?  What would you do differently if you had no stress and you were truly happy?

Those are just a few questions you can begin to contemplate…in the meantime, here is a great article to read:

CLICK HERE TO LEARN WHY BEING HAPPY IS VERY HEALTHY FOR YOU

If you feel happiness and simplicity continually eludes you, as if it’s so far out of your reach, Life Recovery Coaching may be the solution for you.

Take a moment and check out what I have to say about this topic on my website:

LIFE RECOVERY AND YOU 

I sincerely hope that 2014 will be The Year of New Beginnings and Beautiful Things to Come. 

10 Principles of Healthy Living

Dear Friends,

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR

Yes, the Holiday Season is one that brings joy and happiness as family and friends gather together.  We laugh, we share stories of times gone by and we reflect.  As the holidays settle down and we begin to think about the New Year to come, most of us consider ways to improve the quality of our lives.  Everyone’s agenda is different but I found there are some things we all have in common that we strive to have for a healthy lifestyle.

Here are some simple principles to help you along your way:

1.  breathe deeply

2.  drink water

3.  sleep peacefully

4.  eat nutritiously

5.  enjoy activity

6.  give and receive love

7.  be forgiving

8.  practice gratitude

9.  develop acceptance

10.. develop a relationship with God

Happy Holidays Dear Friends!

Holiday Tips to De-Stress

Looking for tips to help you de-stress during the holidays?

Holiday De-Stress Tips

Here are some ideas to help you along your way:

  • Nurture Yourself: Set aside relaxation time – (yes, I am serious – make the time to relax – take a bubble bath, light scented candles, curl up to a good book.)
  • Spend time with positive people who enhance your life – (during the holidays we may have to be around people who cause us stress – so connecting with people you really like at this time is important.)
  • Do something you enjoy every day – (this will help balance you out and lift your spirits – go for a walk, play with your pet, meditate.)
  • Keep your sense of humor – (now come on, you know laughter is the best medicine of all – watch a good comedy, call a friend who always makes you laugh –  remember to just keep smiling)

And remember, try not to get too caught up in the hustle and bustle of the holidays – they are meant to be enjoyed!

Happy Holidays!

The Best Time Is Now!

Can you believe we are already at the end of 2013?
This made me think about the things I accomplished this year as well as my future goals for the upcoming year.
I was wondering if you were thinking about your goals too?
If you are anything like me, come New Year’s Morning I have HIGH hopes and aspirations for the year.
All types of things buzz around my mind that excite me.
Let me ask you now…
  • How’s that organizing project going – did you complete it?
  • Did you overcome your procrastination?
  • Are you managing your tasks more effectively?
  • Have you been able to balance out your life?
  • Are you living clutter free?
  • Have you been able to improve that relationship that means so much to you?

Well, if you’re like 97% of the population your answer to the above questions will be no.

But I don’t want you to be part of that 97% population – I want you to stand out and succeed.

I have a little secret I want to share with you – NOW is actually the best time to go after all you want – Do NOT wait until New Year’s Morning to begin thinking about your goals – do it NOW!

I will PERSONALLY  help you get a jump start on your goals absolutely FREE of charge with a 30 minute coaching session!

With this powerful 30 minute coaching session you will leave with:

  • Written positive outcomes for the New Year.
  • A new awareness of what is causing many of your challenges that’s holding you back from achieving your goals right now (It may not be what you think!)
  • A renewed sense of energy about the New Year to come and what you can expect.
  • A “next” step action plan for moving your goals along with commitment, motivation and passion.

Email me now for your FREE session @ [email protected]  and someone from my team will be in contact with you within 24 hours.

With love,

Patricia Diesel

A Very Special Thanksgiving Invitation

A Very Special Invitation
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In celebration of Thanksgiving, I would like to extend a very special invitation to you.

If you accept my invitation, I will be sharing with you a very personal story of joy and hope.

I want to share this story with you because I am so very thankful and grateful for people, just like you, who are part of the Keep It Simple Now Community.

Won’t you please join me for this very special tel-class on Tuesday, November 26th @ 7:00 pm (Eastern Time).  It’s going to be awesome – go on, register now!

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With Love,

Patricia Diesel, CPC
Keep It Simple Now, LLC

(908) 642-1226
www.keepitsimplenow.com

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Why Do You Do That?

I am curious about something…

Have you ever had an idea you were super excited about?

Did you have good intentions to carry out that idea, but when it came time to putting that idea into action, well, it never happened?

Why did you do that?

It Still Goes Back To Fear
Maybe, just maybe it’s a fear of success…or how about this…maybe, just maybe it’s a fear of failure.  You see, what may stand true for you, can be the polar opposite for another.  However, the feelings associated with this fear can be just as strong.  Fear can deny us of what we really want to do.
Words Are Powerful
We may not realize the power behind our words.  When we speak a mantra, an intention, a statement, we put our words into motion. Our words are then waiting for us to claim them, take action and follow through.
It’s Time To Take Action
Are you tired of doing the same thing and receiving the same results?  Then it’s time to change what you are doing.

In other “Words”

  • If you say you want to get organized and change the quality of your life, then take the action that is necessary to begin the process.
  • If you say you are tired of living in chaos and want peace of mind, then take the action that is required to develop a plan.
  • If you say you would like to spend more quality time with the people you love, then take action to create balance in your life.

STOP PROCRASTINATING and you will stop asking yourself once and for all…

“Why Do I Do That?”

Do what you know is right, take action!

With love,

Patricia Diesel, CPC
Keep It Simple Now, LLC
(908) 642-1226
www.keepitsimplenow.com

Please Note:  Procrastination can be a serious struggle.  If you feel that you are stuck in the cycle of procrastination and want to learn strategies to overcome this, please contact me.

What Are You Thinking About Right Now?

What are you thinking about right now?

I bet at this very moment you are contemplating several things…

For instance, maybe you are thinking about how to get yourself more organized and your thoughts go something like this:

  • I need to create a system for my home life.
  • I need to manage my tasks better.
  • I need to get motivated.

Then your mind drifts a bit… and after awhile… something triggers that thought again – only this time your thoughts go something like this:

  • I really need to create a system for my life – I just can’t take the madness anymore.
  • I really need to manage my tasks right now – I feel totally out of control.
  • I really need to get motivated – I am procrastinating way too much!

Yet you do nothing about it – WHY?

You know it’s the right thing to do, yet you are feeling fearful – fearful that if you really try to do something about your situation and invest possibly your time, energy, and money you may fail!   

  • Or you have convinced yourself all over again that things really aren’t that bad.
  • Or maybe you even talked yourself into believing that you can’t find the time – you know, you are just way too busy.  
  • Or here’s another one – it’s really not that IMPORTANT on the bigger scale of things. 

Well, I can tell you, if you are feeling this way you are in deep need of a paradigm shift – that self-sabotaging behavior my friend has gotten the best of you!

Now I can go on and on and tell you how many times people, just like you, who have contemplated changing their life but when it comes time to do something about it, they never take action.   

And then you know what happens?

That initial investment they were so worried about making, you know the investment of their time, energy and money –  has now cost them in the long run, so much more.   

And now they are really in a pinch, a a fix, a crisis, and they need it NOW!

So what about you?  Are you going to continue to contemplate or are you going to take action?

Which will you choose?

Don’t let yourself down again.

Move forward and walk through the fear.  I am right here waiting on the other side.

Great New York Times Article

Dear Readers,

Great article, that all too sadly is true.

I have cleaned out homes in preparation for sale for clients and it is a consuming project – mind, body & spirit.

Read on…

 

The New York Times:

 

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/10/13/realestate/selling-a-hoarders-apartment.html?adxnnl=1&ref=constancerosenblum&adxnnlx=1381851211-S4lVsCdA5ZDFJbs/R7cPqA

 

 

Selling a Hoarder’s Home: The Trouble With Stuff

 

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The one-bedroom condo on Park Avenue was described by the broker, Jeffrey Tanenbaum of Halstead Property, as a “hoarder’s paradise, with seven cats, one dog and 12 armoires packed to the brim.”

Closets were on the verge of bursting, and the owner’s bed was heaped with mounds of clothes. Floors had buckled, and paint had peeled from the walls. The owner’s husband had died unexpectedly, and financial problems had forced her to put the apartment on the market.

“When I arrived for our first meeting,” Mr. Tanenbaum said, “I got the shock of my life. But the light, the views and the location were incredible.” Light streamed so powerfully through a wall of windows “that you really needed sunglasses in the afternoon.” A major selling point was the sweeping 600-square-foot terrace with three exposures.

Deeply moved by the plight of the owner — “my heart really went out to her” — Mr. Tanenbaum set to work.

He rented a storage space for the contents of the apartment, and paid his own housekeeper to scrub down the premises. The online listing featured only a floor plan, a photograph of the lushly planted terrace, “and careful language to mention that the apartment had great bones,” he said. The space was shown 30 times and received 9 offers; in June, after a bidding war, it sold for about the asking price, just over $1 million.

Real estate brokers are expected to play an active role in the buying and selling of a home. They help set the purchase price and guide their clients through bidding wars and co-op board applications. But these days, some brokers are finding themselves in new territory, shepherding the sale of a hoarder’s home.

With inventory so low, almost any new listing gets waves of attention, and even the overflowing homes of hoarders are catnip to buyers. Yet selling these properties is different from most transactions: Brokers must restrain themselves from the push-and-pull that typifies most sales. Tact, restraint and sensitivity are the relevant qualities. With many properties, possessions have accumulated to such an extent that simply setting foot inside is a challenge.

Hoarding is a complex emotional disorder defined as a fierce need to acquire combined with a paralyzing inability to get rid of things. The Collyer brothers, perhaps the best known example of hoarders, died in their impassable New York house in 1947. An estimated 3 to 5 percent of Americans suffer from the condition, which in May was listed for the first time as a distinct disorder in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders.

Although not confined to the elderly, the problems associated with hoarding intensify with age. And in a crowded metropolis, these troublesome spaces can seem uncomfortably close, which is why co-op boards sometimes force the issue and order a sale.

Owners of such apartments are reluctant to discuss their situations, aware that the label of hoarder invariably carries a stigma. Some are aware that the state of their living space has spiraled out of control. Others are in denial.

But whatever term is used to describe occupants of overly cluttered spaces, emptying one out can be wrenching, as Mimi Turque Marre discovered recently in tossing decades’ worth of possessions in the two-bedroom prewar on the Upper West Side where she had lived for 40 years. Contents included a closet filled with her father’s vintage 78s and furnishings from her late husband’s childhood home, including the kitchen table where he sat as a boy.

“I gave away things I never thought I would part with,” said Ms. Turque Marre, an actress whose Broadway credits include “Man of La Mancha” and “Fiddler on the Roof,” who put her apartment on the market earlier this year. Ms. Turque Marre does not describe herself as a hoarder, but she acknowledges that she has a tendency to hang onto things that matter to her. “If you’re me, things have histories,” she said. “I can get sentimentally attached to a dust ball if it hangs around long enough.”

Because inventory is tight, even though the apartment had not been fully emptied, it sold within a few days.

For brokers, showing and marketing a true hoarder property can require considerable creativity. Some spaces are firetraps and home to bugs or worse, with rooms so jampacked that visitors must navigate sliver-thin passages simply to move from one to another. Online visuals present a special challenge; a broker might display a floor plan, a view out a window or another apartment on the same line.

And forget the open house. Sometimes prospective buyers can’t get past the front door. Buyers must also be encouraged to picture the rosy possibilities that await them once the junk has been carted away and the contractors have worked their magic. As brokers invariably recommend, “Close your eyes and pretend.”

The possibilities are considerable, because many of these spaces are trophy homes or used to be. “Some of the best addresses in New York City have hoarders in them,” said Harold Kobner of Argo Real Estate, who last winter sold a Classic 7 owned by a hoarder on the Upper West Side. Despite the legal and financial tangles that often complicate such sales, these properties spark bidding wars and attract dozens of potential buyers, some making all-cash offers well above the asking price.

“Right now people are starving for anything,” said Mark D. Friedman, a Halstead broker who sold his first hoarder apartment, home to three dogs, eight cats and “not a speck of ground without something on it” eight years ago. “They’ll look past a lot to see the bones of a place.”

Robin Plevener, a Citi Habitats broker, discovered both the challenges and the rewards of selling a hoarder’s apartment last year when she sold a two-bedroom on East 86th Street, home since the 1950s to a quilter unable to discard so much as a scrap of fabric.

“It was a fabulous building with a strict board,” Ms. Plevener said, “but the apartment was literally overflowing with hundreds of pounds of material that the owner used for her work.” Dozens of full-size quilts were stashed in the bedroom. The dining table was buried beneath acres of silk, satin and calico. The five walk-in closets were packed so full that their doors hadn’t been shut in years. The door to the room used as a studio had to be kept closed, for fear the owner’s cats would get lost in the clutter.

“The owner couldn’t have had more furniture if she’d owned a store,” said Ms. Plevener, who showed only the floor plan and the building’s handsome exterior on the Citi Habitats Web site. “If the apartment had been empty, it would have sold in a minute, but people couldn’t see beyond the clutter. When I first saw it, I thought, ‘Oh, my God, she’s never going to get her money’s worth.’ ”

Gently, because the seller was an acquaintance, Ms. Plevener tried to coax her into digging out. “But even after she got rid of dozens of garbage bags of stuff, you couldn’t see a difference.” To Ms. Plevener’s further dismay, many of the dozens of visitors made disparaging comments as they poked about the place, even when the owner was present. “I said, ‘Please don’t. A person lives here, and you have to respect her.’ ”

“She wasn’t nuts: she just couldn’t throw anything away,” Ms. Plevener said. “Living like that was her comfort zone.”

The property went on the market in April 2012, with an asking price slightly under $800,000, and an offer arrived the following month. The deal fell through a few weeks later, but a second buyer, Dr. Andrew Schreiner, promptly fell in love with the apartment and bought it for about $50,000 less than the asking price, charmed by the layout, the price and the building’s reputation.

“Because there had been a previous potential buyer, I didn’t see the apartment at its worst,” said Dr. Schreiner, a pathologist at NewYork-Presbyterian/Weill Cornell Medical Center, who closed on the property last October. “You could tell when you walked in that the place had been tidied up. But it was definitely overcrowded.”

Dr. Schreiner’s greatest fear was that decades of neglect had permanently damaged the walls and the original parquet floors. It hadn’t, but when the old carpeting was ripped up, clouds of dust flew into the air. “I was a bit worried about what I’d find,” he said, and in fact, before he could move in, every surface had to be redone.

Dr. Schreiner also had more metaphysical concerns.

“There was a kind of spooky, time-capsule feeling,” he said. “When I saw the apartment, I thought to myself: someone’s entire history is overflowing here, and you feel as if you’re intruding. An apartment like this also makes you think about yourself. You wonder, could I myself fall off the deep end?” He describes himself as a neat enough person, but still he wonders.

With hoarder apartments increasing as New York City’s population ages, co-op boards typically do everything they can to expedite their sale. Sometimes the problems are so great that the board gets a court order mandating the sale of an apartment to protect other residents from potential dangers like fire and vermin.

“When the apartment of a hoarder is sold, the board is the happiest guy in the room,” said Aaron Shmulewitz, a partner of Belkin Burden Wenig & Goldman who has helped many a co-op and condominium board deal with problem homes. “Generally, a longstanding health problem is being resolved, and boards usually bend over backward to expedite the sale. If the potential buyer is on the cusp of fiscal responsibility, the board will try to approve that person, just to get the hoarder out of the building.”

Showing these properties requires considerable ingenuity, as Eileen Richter, a Brown Harris Stevens broker, discovered when she prepared to sell a stunningly overstuffed Park Slope brownstone. Online, the property was described as a “handyman’s fixer-upper,” and praised for its great bones and terrific location.

But the accompanying image, a chocolaty brownstone facade framed by leafy branches and dappled sunlight, should have been a tip-off. When this onetime showplace went on the market, posting photographs of the interior was out of the question.

“My jaw hit the floor,” said Ms. Richter, who sold the house with her Brown Harris Stevens colleague Audrey Edwards. “I had literally never seen anything like it in my life. Every room was packed. Every surface was heaped with papers and computers. Clothes were piled halfway up the walls, and there was so much stuff shoved against the door leading to the backyard that you couldn’t even open it. What made the whole thing more amazing is that the household included two young children.”

The open house was held on a bright day in February 2008, Ms. Richter recalled. “I remember telling Audrey: ‘We can’t let kids in. It’s not safe.’ We had to tell prospective buyers that we could only let two or three adults in at a time.”

Not that the owner, who Ms. Richter said had lived in the house for decades, expressed any chagrin about the state of the premises. “He wasn’t apologetic,” Ms. Richter said. “His vision of where he was living was very different from ours. At least with estate sales, the owners are deceased and you can get the stuff out. But this owner was here, and he thought he lived in a fabulous house.”

Despite the challenges, the sale proceeded with lightning speed. Two weeks after the house went on the market with an asking price of about $1.3 million, the buyers signed a contract for slightly above that figure.

Even after a deal is struck, the closing may be a distant goal, as Mr. Kobner of Argo learned in selling the Upper West Side Classic 7, a down-at-the-heels beauty whose assets included a formal dining room, a maid’s room, seven closets and 270-degree exposures. What the listing failed to mention was that over the past half-century, the apartment had become a repository for great quantities of furniture, mountains of clothes and papers and, most notably, thousands of books.

“Plus, the apartment was in shambles,” said Mr. Kobner, who represented the sellers, an elderly mother and her two grown children. “The family had lived there for decades, and the place was indescribable. When you see these homes on TV, you think they can’t be real. But they are.”

After a month on the market, the apartment sold for upward of $2.5 million, with the buyers planning to spend half a million on a gut renovation.

“But the problems were only beginning,” Mr. Kobner said. “Usually a closing takes three weeks; this one took seven. The whole transaction, which should have taken 90 days, lasted seven months. Plus, the owners couldn’t get all their stuff out. I had to help them find storage, and also a new place to live. The buyers kept wondering, will the apartment ever close?”

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http://www.nytimes.com/2013/10/13/realestate/selling-a-hoarders-apartment.html?adxnnl=1&ref=constancerosenblum&adxnnlx=1381851211-S4lVsCdA5ZDFJbs/R7cPqA

 

What’s Keeping You From Getting Organized?

What’s Keeping You From Getting Organized?

Fear

Fear is paralyzing. It can stop you from achieving your utmost desires and it hinders many people from reaching their ultimate goals.   One of the biggest challenges people have who want to simplify their lives is the ability to overcome their fear of “letting go” of their things.  Even professionals have the same fear including me.

But holding on to unnecessary things holds us back.  We all have things we’ve collected over the years, like maybe your dad’s or your late husbands’ golf clubs, great aunt Sophie’s dishes, or your stuff from college.  You’re holding on to it all but you never use it.  You have to ask… why am I keeping all this?

Fear is a major emotion that people need to learn how to overcome if they want to live clutter free.

Whether I am coaching my clients or conducting training workshops, FEAR is the number one obstacle they voice and this blocks their ability to get organized.  Clutter bugs are usually afraid of letting go because:

·          It’s a way to stay close to someone you loved

·          It’s a way to keep reliving a happy memory

·          They think their kids will want their stuff someday.

·          They think they may need it one day.

·          It feels to daunting of a job.

Of course, this fear is only born from what the future may hold – the unknown.  This mindset keeps them trapped in an endless loop of uncertainty.  The organizer in them wants to take that leap of faith but their mind stirs up all kinds of doubts in them.  Now they experience emotional clutter.

A little fear is not that bad. Actually, it can be a good thing when it comes to valuable items.  But I always tell my clients that it is all about taking the first step, baby steps.  Usually after the first step is taken, their ability to identify what’s important and what they want to keep or let go of becomes easier.

 I then ask them to consider what they really feel passionate about and what they really want in their life and why.  From here we talk about how we are going to create that, even when you think it’s not possible. And before they know it, all that fear becomes Manageable Fear.

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