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Feeling Overwhelmed? Try This.

We all feel overwhelmed at times.  And overwhelm is no stranger to lack of follow through.

Don’t beat yourself up and don’t put so much pressure on yourself if you are having difficulty right now completing something.

The mind on overwhelm is complicated.  It’s going to signal you to feel an array of emotions which can leave you feeling anywhere from anxious to exhausted.

But there are things you can do to control the chaos and be productive again.

Here’s how:

First, you need to capture it.Take the ‘overwhelm’ out of your head and put it on paper, where you can distance yourself from it a bit.  Just brain dump everything that is gnawing at you that you would like to get done.

Then I want you to sort it all out.  We refer to this as “Chunking.”  Think of it as categorizing your tasks and to-dos with headings and then sub-headings (keeping like with like).

Here’s an example:

MY LIST

ERRANDS (Category)                                         CALLS (Category)
Post Office (Sub)                                                  Make Eye Dr. Appt. (Sub)
Dry Cleaners (Sub)                                              Dinner Reservations (Sub)
Bank (Sub)                                                             Home repair estimates (Sub)

Next, choose the category that you want to take care of immediately.  Don’t overthink it.

And finally, take Action.  Either do it immediately, schedule it into your calendar, delegate the task, but take action right there and then.

By doing this simple exercise your mind will reward you by feeling uplifted and more positive.

Remember, break things down as much as possible whenever you feel it’s getting too big for your mind to handle.  It’s how you find simplicity in the complicated.

“Ask The Organizer” is back!

“Ask The Organizer” is back!

If you have questions about how to declutter your life and want to know what is the best way to organize your home and office, I have great news for you!

This Sunday evening, April 14, 2019 @ 7:00pm et – I will be hosting another “Ask The Organizer” FREE tel-conference.

Simply call into the below phone number, enter your pin # and you can get all your questions answered.  I suggest you make a list of all the pressing things you want to take care of so I can help you cross them off and get into action!

Here’s the info:

Phone:  1-605-562-0400
Pin Code:  954 5600

Oh, I expect the line to fill up, so the early bird catches the worm here… 🙂

Talk to you soon!

 

 

Lifestyle Changes That Move You To Be A Better Person

When I had my health scare, I remember two questions that weighed heavy on my mind:

1.  What is the root cause of my health problem?

2.  How can I heal myself naturally?

Those two questions led me on a wellness journey which prompted me to write my book, Organically Yours; Open Yourself to a Vibrant Healthy Life Through Clean Living.

Since then, I’ve made significant lifestyle changes – all for the better.

And I continue to seek out wellness information that makes sense for me.

I believe that any lifestyle change has to speak to you…move you to want to live better.

If you’re interested, I will be hosting a FREE Webinar where I’ll be sharing some of these lifestyle changes.

You can register for it here:

The Unbearable Heaviness of Clutter

The Unbearable Heaviness of Clutter

A cluttered home can be a stressful home, researchers are learning.

By Emilie Le Beau Lucchesi

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/03/well/mind/clutter-stress-procrastination-psychology.html

 

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“Do you have a clutter problem?

If you have to move things around in order to accomplish a task in your home or at your office or you feel overwhelmed by all your “things,” it’s a strong signal that clutter has prevailed. And it might be stressing you out more than you realize.

“Clutter is an overabundance of possessions that collectively create chaotic and disorderly living spaces,” said Joseph Ferrari, a professor of psychology at DePaul University in Chicago who studies the causes of clutter and its impact on emotional well-being. And a cluttered home, researchers are learning, can be a stressful home.

Dr. Ferrari was part of a research team that questioned three groups of adults about clutter and life satisfaction: college students; young adults in their 20s and 30s; and older adults, most in their 50s.

The authors assessed volunteers’ tendency to procrastinate, asking them to respond to statements like “I pay bills on time” using a five-point scale, ranging from strongly disagree to strongly agree. Procrastination is closely tied to clutter, because sorting through and tossing items is a task that many people find unpleasant and avoid. It takes time to file away important papers or sort through a dining room table buried under books.

The researchers also measured participants’ general well-being in relation to how clutter might be affecting their lives, asking them to answer questions such as “the clutter in my home upsets me” and “I have to move things in order to accomplish tasks in my home.”

The study, published in Current Psychology, found a substantial link between procrastination and clutter problems in all the age groups. Frustration with clutter tended to increase with age. Among older adults, clutter problems were also associated with life dissatisfaction.

The findings add to a growing body of evidence that clutter can negatively impact mental well-being, particularly among women. Clutter can also induce a physiological response, including increased levels of cortisol, a stress hormone.

A 2010 study in The Journal of Personality and Social Psychology looked at dual-income married couples living in the Los Angeles area who had at least one school-aged child at home. The wives in the study who perceived themselves as having a cluttered home or a home that needed work tended to have increased levels of cortisol throughout the day. Those who weren’t feeling cluttered, which included most of the men in the study, had cortisol levels that tended to drop during the day.

Darby Saxbe, an assistant psychology professor at University of Southern California and the study’s lead author, said that the women in the study who described their home as being cluttered or needing work began their day stressed and remained stressed. Some of the added stress, she suspects, was tied to women’s tendency to take on housework and extra chores after the workday. In terms of cortisol levels, men who did more housework in the evening were as likely to have raised cortisol levels at the end of the day as women. It’s just that not as many men spent as much time on housework as their wives, she said.

In a follow-up study, Dr. Saxbe studied the cortisol level in the afternoon and evening, a time when stress should be dropping in “an adaptive recovery.” Not everyone in the study was bothered by shoes left on the staircase or mail piled on the coffee table. But again, women were more likely than men to complain about clutter or having too many unfinished projects, and did not show a cortisol reduction.

“Clutter is in the eye of the beholder,” Dr. Saxbe said. “The people who talked about it were the ones who had the cortisol response.”

Experts are beginning to explore why clutter can elicit such a strong emotional response.

Dr. Saxbe said there has long been a standard representation on how a middle-class home should look and function. A disorderly home fails to live up to such an expectation.

“If you think of the 1950s ideals of the single family home,” Dr. Saxbe said. “The man comes home, kicks up his feet and has a cocktail. The home is a place to come home and unwind. But not if the home is filled with a to-do list and never-ending drudgery.”

Gaining control over the drudgery of decluttering is a task that many inhabitants of cluttered residences struggle to master.

Dr. Ferrari noted that clutter is also often the result of an “over-attachment” to our personal items, which makes it difficult to part with them. For overwhelmed individuals who want to declutter, he recommends a hands-off approach.

“If you’re going to declutter, don’t touch the item. Don’t pick it up,” he said. “Have somebody else hold the pair of black pants and say, ‘Do you need this?’ Once you touch the item, you are less likely to get rid of it.”

Another option is to make a conscious effort to acquire less. Dr. Ferrari argued that most of what we accumulate we do not need. “We have taken our wants and been told they are needs,” he said.

Dr. Saxbe agreed that a good way to declutter is to keep items out of the house in the first place. She urged shoppers to consider whether they truly need an item or if it will add to their home’s sense of dysfunction. “Once it’s in the house, it’s really hard to deal with. You get attached to the things you own,” she said.”

HOLIDAY STRESS

HOLIDAY STRESS
Did you know that holiday stress has a particular impact on women?
According to a US Holiday Stress Report, “Women generally take charge of many of the holiday celebrations, particularly the tasks related to preparing meals and decorating the home.In addition, they have a harder time relaxing during the holidays and are more likely to fall into bad habits to manage their stress, like comfort eating.”
The report also revealed that the holidays have an impact on lower middle income individuals. “This group feels the weight of stress from work plus the seasonal rush to find time to get everything done.In addition, their worries about money are heightened by the commercialism of the season and the pressure to spend a lot of money.”
Last week I offered a tel-class that covered holiday stress and I mentioned that I would be offering a follow-up workshop.
The goal of this workshop is to keep you mindful of your emotional triggers and  financial budget so you can enjoy the season without the additional stress and worry.
THIS IS AN ON-LINE EVENT THAT WILL TAKE PLACE ON:
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 30TH,
7:30-9:00 PM ET
INCLUDED IN THE WORKSHOP:
  • PowerPoint Presentation
  • Workbook
  • Q&A Time
  • Recording for Future Reference
As my way of giving back to you during this season, I have priced this event at only $69.99
It is jam packed with incredible value that will keep on giving way beyond the holiday season.
I encourage you to take advantage of this opportunity.

Clutter & Stress Go Hand-In-Hand

Does clutter and stress go hand-in-hand? 
I would have to say the answer to that is YES!
There are two types of clutter – physical and emotional – both are stressful.
Physical clutter is about your environment – your work or living space.  Studies show that when there are elevated amounts of clutter your stress level increases.

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Emotional
clutter is about the ‘things’ that are in your head that are causing you to feel overwhelmed, which ultimately triggers stress.

So when I read the latest study of Neuroscience Researchers at Berkeley, CA revealed that chronic stress triggers long-term changes in brain structure & function – it caught my attention.

 

This study had an impact on me for two reasons:
1. Personal Concerns
2. Professional Concerns
The first reason due to the obvious health concerns for overall wellness and the second reason because of how stress impacts you – especially when one is dealing with life recovery and clutter.
This is why I am offering an Educational On-Line Event on Monday, November 2, 2015 from 7:00 – 8:30 PM ET entitled – How To Combat Stress & Keep Your Brain Healthy.
 
At the event I will share with you some of the highest practices I know on how to cope with stress.  We will discuss what to do and what not to do, as well as when to take action and when not to take action to combat stress.

 

A workbook will be included, Q&A time and the opportunity to be personally Coached by me. 

 

To participate, you have to first register for the event.  Once you do, all the details will be sent to you on how to attend.  The On-Line Event Fee is only $49.95.
 
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How To Soar To New Heights

“How does it feel to be completely blocked from achieving your highest potential? You know you want to get there; you feel you can do it; you even imagine it in all its glory.  But nothing happens.  You can’t make the transition.”~ B. E. 

The above is a fairly typical example of  how my clients express themselves when they feel stuck.
Perhaps there are moments when you feel this way too?It is also fairly common to gain moments of clarity in the stuck process.  You start to get energized and take steps to get yourself out of the rut.  You feel like you are making progress and you feel excited.  Then “something” happens.  You are not sure exactly what that something is, but it stops you from moving forward.  You find yourself pulling back again, this time even further.  You’re not sure why you pull back but you do. Your primary instinct is to seek comfort.  Comfort from your internal tug of war.
So what is this all about – what’s really going on when a person feels this way? Although a person may feel stuck, it is important to understand what “stuck” represents.  Often you will hear the comparison of being stuck to being in the middle of something.  The middle of something that one may feel they can’t get out of or not sure which direction to go.This is a very accurate description.  The truth is, the person who is feeling this way is  indeed stuck in the middle of something!  And that something usually represents the past and the future. This is why feeling stuck can be very confusing and needless to say, emotional.
So how do you get unstuck? 
On Monday, August 31, 2015 from 7:30pm until 9:00pm ET, I will be presenting an on-line workshop that will help you sort it all out.  Following will be Q&A time.  Just imagine what it will feel like when you are no longer trapped in the middle of your past and future.  Take a moment and envision being unstuck.  Do you see yourself soaring above – perhaps soaring to your higher self? 
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Take a look at what my client has to say now (the one who wrote the quote above) about being unstuck…
“I feel like I’m soaring like a bird.  I smell the sweet, sweet air with the gentle wind against my face.  It’s delightful, it’s exhilarating, it’s freeing!” ~B.E.
It’s not fun being stuck in the middle! Let me help you! Register for this event!
Once you register you will receive a Welcome Package that includes detailed information on how to attend the event.  You will also receive a Workbook that will guide you through the PowerPoint presentation that evening.  There will be time for a Q&A period so please bring your questions.
*Workbook
*PowerPoint
*Q&A Time
*1.5 + Hours
Since I believe in providing value to my clients, I try throughout the course of the year to offer events that are affordable for all to participate – this is just my way of giving back.  This is why this event is only $69.99. ($1,000. value)The event however is only open to the first ten (10) people who register.  Then it is locked.  Since all of my workshops sell out, I encourage you to register now so you don’t miss this event.  This one is sure to be POWERFUL!
Note:  Please come prepared to learn and be open to a fresh perspective on how to get unstuck.  Remember, the more open you are to learning, the faster the understanding will come.  Once the understanding arrives, you are more apt to accelerate change.  Just a hint…xo

Oh Where, Oh Where Did My Papers Go?

There is nothing more frustrating than looking for something you cannot find – wouldn’t you agree?  How many times have you tried to reach for something – hoping that it would be right there in front of you – right within finger tips reach – and it’s not!
Disappointing isn’t it? 
Now let’s look at this from a paper perspective.Generally speaking, our papers hold information we need.  At some point we will take some type of action on these papers.  These paper can represent mail that has to be opened, a bill that requires payment, or a very important document that calls for immediate attention.
Regardless of what type of information the paper may be holding, the paper has something to do with a very personal part of who we are.  This is the very reason why our papers can be so emotional to deal with – they hold emotional energy.
Our papers tell a story of our past, present and future. 
How we handle our paper can determine where we go.
So if our papers are not organized and they are not easily accessible when we need them, well, you get the picture – you are going to feel emotional about it.
Are you getting this?  This is really cool stuff!If you would like to learn more about how to organize your paperwork so you can move in the right direction, then you won’t want to miss out on my Live Event:
How To Tame Your Papers & Calm Your Overwhelm
Tuesday, August 11, 2015 @ 7:30-9:00 PM
This class is open to the first 10 people who register.  There is a $39.99 fee that includes a Workbook and PowerPoint Presentation.  Information will be sent to you upon registration on how to attend the Live Event.
P.S. – Remember, this class is only open to the first 10 people – class fills up quickly so don’t delay if you want to get your papers tamed! 
Patricia Diesel is a Certified Life Coach and Professional Organizer dedicated to bringing her skill, inspiration and encouragement to those who want to regain hope and enhance the quality of their life. She conveys her life transforming lessons through her travels, speaking engagements and media appearances. She has helped countless individuals restore tranquility and sense to their lives.

Feel It – Bless It

How often in life do you stuff down negative emotions or feelings about something going on in your present life or about something that has happened in the past?

It’s a common human pattern to stuff things down. We do it to protect ourselves. You’ve done it, I’ve done it, people do it on a daily basis.

The challenge is…

As we continue to stuff things down in our lives, it accumulates and causes more and more problems for us. 

I received the above in an email from Nick Ortner, The Tapping Solution, and it got me to thinking …

Eventually this accumulation of stuff has no other choice but to come out. When it does come out, it can manifest in many forms. For some people, their outward form manifests as physical clutter.

Clutter as we know represents disorder. Therefore, our physical clutter is an outward manifestation, a demonstration if you will, of what we may be feeling inwardly, i.e., confusion, turmoil, overwhelm. So it makes perfect sense when someone says, “I don’t know where to begin or how to start” when attempting to combat their clutter.

The truth is 99.9% of the time, people can get organized. Organization is a skill set that one can learn. It is the emotional aspect that prevents one from doing so, commonly referred to as an emotional block.

For this very reason, it’s important to take note that in order to deal with your physical clutter it is also necessary to work on your emotional clutter. Otherwise, it has been my experience, that no matter how many times you attempt to get things back in order, if you do not deal with the emotional aspect, the clutter will come back.

It is also important to point out, that the clutter will usually come back with a vengeance.  It’s as if the clutter is saying, “Hey you, I’m not done here…look at me…we have things to settle and I’m not going away until we do.”

This is the time when I suggest you look at your clutter with a fresh perspective. In other words, don’t fear the clutter, Bless it. Approach the clutter with gratitude and thankfulness.

Think of it this way…

Your outward manifestation is like looking through your very own Looking Glass – it’s mirroring back to help you. Look at it as an opportunity to begin the process of healing so you can begin to move forward in your life.

 

New Beginnings – A New Event

Free Yourself From Your Clutter!

New Beginnings!

We all deserve to have a new lease on life.  That is why New Beginnings is a very special workshop.  In this event, I am combining my professional organizing and life coaching experience all in one program to help you get your life back on track in the most efficient and effective manner.  It’s going to be a workshop with fresh, innovative and cutting edge material to help support and guide you through the process of creating your new story.

Check it out:

Our first line of order will be a 3 week on-line course.  This is very important as it will provide you with a strong foundation to execute your working plan.

Here is what this on-line workshop looks like:

Length:  3 Evenings – 1.5 Hours Each Class – 3 Week Duration

Dates:  March 9th, 16, 23 – 2015 – Monday Evenings

Time:  7:30 – 9:00 PM ET

Materials:  You will need a telephone and computer.  A workbook will be emailed to you upon registration.

Course Outline:

Goals

  • It’s More Than Just A Goal
  • Goal Setting vs Goal Achieving
  • 3 Step Process

Limited Belief Systems

  • The Story of Fear
  • Facing Our Fears Head On
  • Re-Writing Our Story

The Art of Preparing

  • Setting The Tone & Vibe
  • Personal Declarations
  • Gathering Your Tools

Creating the Process

  • Setting The Agenda
  • Creating Next Steps
  • Properly Prioritizing

Pathways to Recovery

  • How to Stay Motivated
  • Finding Inspiration
  • Balancing It All

The next step of order is your private, one-on-one coaching sessions with me.  Here we will work closely  to create your plan, design your process and overcome any emotional blocks that may be looming.  This is a critical component to make sure you are on the right track and have the tools to forge ahead.  Having a coach who will support you and hold you accountable is extremely important for your your follow-through and commitment to your life plan.

Here is what your Personal Coaching Program looks like:

Length:  3 Sessions – One Hour Each – 3 Week Duration

Dates: Begins the Week of March 9th and consecutively thereafter for 3 weeks

Time: During the 3 Weeks – your time and day will remain the same

Note:  Upon registration, I will call you to schedule your specific dates and time.

New Beginnings is a very special workshop.  It will provide you with the clarity, composure and consistency that is required for a successful transition.  We all deserve new beginnings and so this program reflects the understanding of this.  That is why I have made this workshop a two part phase that will give you complete value combined with professional organizing tools and life coaching.

This special workshop is packed with value and a price that is reflective of financial sensitivity.  It is my hope you will see this demonstration and accept.

You Can Register Here For New Beginnings!

With love,

Patricia